Although an activity of the child may take place during a period outside the normally provided parental leave of a parent, the parent who does not have the child with him at that time is not prevented from participating in such an activity. When the child participates in an extracurricular activity and the time, place and nature of the activity changes at the last minute, the responsible parent must immediately inform the other parent of the restructuring of his or her debt and information. If you are writing your own care and support contract, you must use a language that reflects your willingness to work with the other parent. The tone should be positive and indicate that both parties are ready to comply with the terms of the document. If it is written that way, it is more likely that a judge will approve of its terms. 1. .